21st Oct 2016
I hope my read makes you feed good.
I myself have been sad from past 18 months – I am still trying to find my self.
I broke up with my ex last year and a piece in me, kinda died. I work and I am living my life, finding myself, finding a reason of existence.
I have been reading and putting my thoughts down and to be honest, we can’t be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean, a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don’t have something better.
Yes, you will be the keep between your friends, You will have to loose some and gain some – Its not a game to win of which friends be yours or his/hers. You don’t have to get reasonable with any of them – they have their reasons to believe in what good they saw you in you and what stories they heard. Every story has two sides your story is your life, not a gossip. Respect your past, respect your life.
Relationships are to two kinds, the ones we are born with and other are the ones we choose for ourselves. The first one relates to your mother, father and siblings and the second ones are with friends, partner and the rest. The first one are from nature, gifted and blessed but the one we choose for ourselves are what drives our future. Your company of friends defines your thinking, your partner defines our future and your child’s future. So what do you define for yourself? – Only your principles and belief.
Want to define yourself in your on terms? Choose your friends and partner wisely – evaluate your relations but don’t judge them. If any of them are causing grief, struggle, hiatus, anxiety, then you should re-evaluate!! Everyone’s life consist of hardship, but no hardship should be from a relation that you choose for yourself. Choose Wisely!!
Have faith and just keep breathing, in the end, everything is going to be fine..!